What many people, not just 13 year old or not would hear is "you can sleep with whoever you want" and turn a deaf ear to everything said before and after.
That's very plausible. Certainly it's all that Calamity Jane, Green Witch, and you are hearing.
My main point, as it happens, wasn't
that Mickey could sleep with whomever she wants. It was that she could decline
to sleep with whomever she didn't
want to. That it was courageous of her, not lame, to stand her ground on this against both her wannabe knight and the friend she talked to. So if this thread is becoming about nothing else but my introductory point, that's because the three of you
refuse to hear anything else.
Perhaps Mickey can appreciate nuanced responses; perhaps she can't. But through your responses, Calamity Jane, Green Witch, and you have proven
that you can't. And you're supposedly the grown-ups here.