What is your biggest discovery on psychology?

That some people come on forums and are completely obsessed with their own problems, to the exclusion of everything else, including perfectly good advice being given to them. They are oblivious even to people parodying them, and constantly make topics over and over again about their heartache, as if they were the only person in the world to ever be hurt or if we actually continued to give a damn.

Being

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I am afraid that one leads to another, etc. So here is my contributions.

it's a sham

My own loss of ego boundary.