Clearly this is a matter of personal opinion but I don't think:
feminists advise in beating down men/walking over them/turning them into sensitive caring emotive men is exhilarating the novelty soon wears off
Is an accurate description of feminism.
To me feminism was about the life choices open to a person who happened to be born without a Y chromosome, and wanting them to be no less than those open to someone who did have a Y chromosome.
Reminds of the aphorism: "The problem with equality is we only want it with our superiors"