Feeling Lonely without my husband

Can you visit your husband? Can he visit you? There are weekends and holidays -- school does not go on every single day. Do you talk at night? Text? What about Internet chat or Skype with your husband?

I can imagine! I have a few friends who (husband and wife) spend months apart due to business. I don't know how I could stand it either!

Hang in there.... and feel free to vent here all you like. Welcome to A2K.

Cycloptichorn

One - find someone to watch baby and go to see him.

How far away is he?

Why can't he get married quarters?

You must spend this energy finding a way to be united with your husband instead of being on chat groups.

Now granted we were not married at the time, but my future husband lived across the country from me when we were first dating. I would make long emails with pictures and cute sicking crap like that and send to him. I'd daydream about him.

I was also busy with work which did help me - is there something constructive you can get involved with? Are there any other moms around you that you can hang around with and talk? Any other outlets for your free time - reading, or painting, etc.

You are going to still miss him, but maybe you could come up with something you can do for him - to surprise him when he comes home.

I feel for you. Why don't you hang out with us when you're feeling lonely?

I spent 6 years working away from home during the week. Of course I got to see my wife and family at the weekends so my situatiion is not really comparable to yours.

I do think you need to find a way to spend some time with your husband otherwise the bonds that couples form slowly begin to erode.

Fantasy is ok as well as long as you REALLY understand the difference between fantasy and reality and where the line is drawn.

As pan said hang out here when you feel lonely or want some contact. There arn't many times of the day when there isnt someone online.