hawkeye, there are some things in this life which are far more important than money.
Seed will get there, you'll see. He's 27 years old
There are a lot of things more important than money, but we all need some. Seed lives in America, where most of the decent paying low education requirement jobs have been exported, where jobs of any kind are difficult to find and will be so for a long time, were the safety net has been shredded, where getting medical care is difficult if you don't have money.....this is not Australia or where ever it is that you know.
And Seed is 27, and he has no plan, and he just came out of the Army with nothing except I hope at least the GI Bill. And he has a kid. And he has to deal with all of the emotional and spiritual scars that this war has inflicted upon him and the nation that he served is not going to be very much help with that burden.
THis is gut check time...sink or swim time. Out of the frying pan into the fire. In Iraq he had is buddies to try to keep him safe, keep him going. Now he has to do it all by himself.
Sorry Seed, dont mean to talk like you are not here....I dont know you, have no idea of what you can do. I do however know that you have a lot of work to do, and no time to waste.