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Why DO I Push Men Away When I Get Close

Tags: Relationships, Crack Addict 27 Years
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View Profile LeonaBanks
 
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Reply Sat 7 Nov, 2009 09:48 am
I didn't mean it to say people want Jesus Christ mother Mary. I was just trying to make a point. It doesn't matter how good some women are men still are never satisfied. Let me not say "men" but most men not all.
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View Profile panzade
 
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Reply Sat 7 Nov, 2009 10:13 am
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Honey I do take time to get to know a man before I decide to sleep with them


Good Good.

Now let me ask you a question Leona. Why do YOU think you have an issue with "familiarity breeds contempt"? Why do you push them away after a certain amount of time?
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Reply Sat 7 Nov, 2009 12:06 pm
I need a certain amount of space. I have always been like that. I don't have contempt for them. I just need space to recharge my mental battery. Also, you know how men are so easy to get bored or restless, well I like the space to come up with new ideas, with having them miss you for a while so they can look forward to spending time with you again and me likewise. I enjoy THINKING and I do that best when I'm alone.
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Reply Sat 7 Nov, 2009 12:12 pm
I don't see anything wrong with your way of looking for space.Eventually you'll find someone who mirrors your desires. Good luck.
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Reply Sat 7 Nov, 2009 03:51 pm
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@panzade,
Honey I do take time to get to know a man before I decide to sleep with them. I ALWAYS have the 3 month rule. A person wouldn't just hand someone the keys to their house or car without really knowing a person. My body is worth so much more than material things. I want to get to know the person. My body is very sacred to me and when I decide to share it, I don't take that lightly.

Oh hon, if your body is so sacred to you, why would you share it with someone who's been a crack addict for the past 27 years? And if you "got to know a man before you slept with them," then why did you end up with this lying sack of shit?
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Reply Sun 8 Nov, 2009 07:37 am
Because when I met him at a stress managment class he was not a crack user. He was in recovery and had years of clean time under his belt.
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Reply Sun 8 Nov, 2009 08:53 am
So what are you going to do now? You going to leave the loser or go to therapy or what? What's your plan?
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View Profile LeonaBanks
 
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Reply Mon 9 Nov, 2009 11:13 am
Sweetie, I assure you I dropped that loser and there is no going or looking back. Trust!!!
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Reply Mon 9 Nov, 2009 03:13 pm
http://i267.photobucket.com/albums/ii287/malcolmjavarb/crack.jpg
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View Profile Mame
 
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Reply Mon 9 Nov, 2009 04:07 pm
You always come up with the weirdest things, well, you and dj. What's with you two?
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