How do you deal with Death?

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About a week ago a really horrible thing happened to my boyfriend. He was killed while driving drunk, when i found out, i was angry, sad, and devastated. I couldn't believe he had been so stupid, i mean he never drove drunk, he hardly liked to drink at all. I loved him so much and i felt like he wasnt thinking about me when he got behind the wheel. His funeral was today and I wasnt sure i would get threw it, I've been really dipressed ever since and i don't know how to deal with it. I wish i could say he'll always be with me, but little things like that don't work for me. I miss everynight he's gone and it's hard dealing with such a thing. So can anyone please give me some useful encouragement?

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How do you deal with Death?

I don 't believe in death.

I believe that it is as fony as a $7 bill.

Its only molting. Conscious life goes on.

People who have been brought back from "death"
(usually in hospitals) have complained about it,
saying that thay shoud have been left alone.
Thay were happy and not dead, before thay were brought back.
Some of them said that being brought back from "death"
is like being put back in prison.

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David

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@THETHINKER411,

no one knows. each of us deals with it on their own and what works for one person may not work for anyone else.

btw that plane that crashed into the copter over the hudson river. it killed two of my childhood friends. i will never get over it.

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I am sure your boyfriend did not INTENTIONALLY start out to hurt YOU.

He had his own agenda and circumstances just played out.

Please join a grief support group.

You will learn how to forgive him for his foolishness.

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@kuvasz,

Oh, kuvasz. I don't presume you want a hug from me, but I can't help it. I'm so sorry, so sorry.

And to the Thinker, I'm sorry too. His not thinking about you when he got in the car drunk, or near so? it wasn't about you. People are complicated.

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