Married man fallen in love with another man

Your take is clear, any relationship based on deception will ultimately
end the same way. He made a commitment to his wife for life.
He is having a crisis of self net worth, any relationship must have your
continued endurance through both the passionate and also the dull
and the successful and failures along the journey. When you arrive
at your final moments before passing the veil of life your eyes will
behold the true treasure that was built by the lasting bond that the two of you
nurture through the many life storms. This means more all else you
could ever hope to seek after ! So talk to Him and ask for His Help!
Yes You know exactly who I am talking about; GOD

Yeah I agree - I'm an asshole - but as far as giving my wife HIV that is slim to non since we don't have sex anymore - haven't had sex for two years - she ain't interested anymore - second my friend and I don't run around having sex with other men or women - I'm not sure yet what I'll do in the future - I still love my male friend and I have told him that he has also told me that he loves me - At this point we're just trying to figure out what we will do and take it one day at a time - Thanks anyway for the concern

Thanks - I talk to Him every day about it hopefully I'll get the answer.

Yes indeed you are not having sex with your wife just as you claimed you would not have sex with your male lover.

We all know that you are a liar of the first degree willing to lied to your wife and family willing to live a double life no matter what the cost to others. In fact your first post only expressed concern about your welfare if the truth would come out.

I would not wish to sell your wife life insurance therefore given your track record.

Being homosexual is not a moral sin in my book but lying and cheating on your love ones surely is.

Once more you are a worthless asshole and I hope your life will indeed crash around your ears in the very manner you was concern about in your first posting if not more so.

Time to let the wife go - let her move on so she can also find another love. Believe, me, she knows something is wrong. You owe her an explanation.

re: your re-emerging sexual feelings for same sex partner. You are going to have to resolve this issue. It is also unfair to carry on with another person in secret and force him to live a lie. Now that the sexual tension has been confronted, you can figure out what else is the basis of this relationship.

Also, maybe you need to move to another community where a person's sexual orientation is not considered a "sin" Leave town quietly and set up somewhere else so you can find yourself - with or without this new lover.

thank-you