Two Timing Widower

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I have been dating a widower for 8 mos. and we are very compatible. We are both in our early 60's and lost our spouses to cancer after being married 30 + yrs. Even though we are intimate, he continues to date other women telling me he is not ready to settle down yet. I have strong feelings (otherwise I couldn't be intimate) for him and I don't date anyone else because it just feels wrong! I constantly question myself if he really cares about me, or is he just keeping me until somebody better comes along. Why do men feel it's okay to two time and why are women looked down upon for doing the same? What should I do?

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@lookoutworld,

Hello lookoutworld,

well your widower has told you already that he's not ready to settle down
and likes to date more than one woman. He's being honest with you which
means he's not two timing you and either you accept his lack of commitment or you walk away. The choice is yours!

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@lookoutworld,

I hope you are taking precautions against getting an STD from your bed hopping freind.

The scond thing that come to mind is why would you wish this kind of a relationship at your/our age when you had have a real relationship for a large fraction of your life.

As a male I could not personal settle for such a relationship if god forbid I lost my soul mate.

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