The weakness of your argument though it that my life experience includes not just me, but all those whom I have come in contact with over this life.
That's not a weakness - that’s a given...and again, I was talking about how your past resulted in your judgmental attitude towards peanuts " your judgements don’t appear to be about who she is, nor how she articulates herself - they appear to be about your life.
There is a school of thought that goes that those attempting to help others should be nonjudgmental, this is not my school however.
There’s nothing wrong with making (specific) judgements (qualified is best) if you base them on the given circumstance of who the person is, where they’re at, and what they're experiencing... but there is a problem if you base your judgements of others on who you are and where you’re at.
the point, which has completely escaped you, is that there are two sides to every story.
You aren’t reading my posts accurately to arrive at that conclusion.
But to make it clear for you - there are two sides to every story. One side rarely contains the whole picture (they may not see, or they may not understand, or they may indulge in self deception, or some other reason leading to them having a limited perspective, or wishing to put their case to others in the most favourable perspective)...and yet, for that person, that may be all they know .
Playing the Devil's advocate is often a useful method...
I would disagree in that I don't think the devils advocate is about blame, but about expanding perspective. Once again, I have no issue with your advice.
Your chant "it is all about you hawkeye" is your dismissal of my point of view,
Would you care to quote where I dismiss your point of view?
Your last couple of post are all about trying to get at me, and you have polluted Peanut's thread to do it. You should consider growing up and knocking it off.
I have no interest in ‘getting at you’. My posts have been about one thing " letting you know that I think your past has adversely affected your judgement of Peanuts. The reason for letting you know, is such things are quite unhelpful to people who come here for help. If we let these things go on, they get repeated, especially if the poster is unaware of what they are doing.