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Mon 2 Mar, 2009 05:28 pm
OK SO IM ENGAGED AND SOON TO BE MARRIED IN A COUPLE OF MONTHS AND ME AND MY FIANCE ARE TALKING ABOUT EVERYTHING NOW AND THE SUBJECT ABOUT RAISING KIDS CAME UP. SHE STARTED TALKING ABOUT IF WE HAVE A GIRL AND MAKE-UP. I SAID AND I BELIEVE THAT SHE SHOULDN'T PUT THAT MUCH MAKE IF NOT ANY MAKE-UP AT ALL TILL SHES AT LEAST IN HIGH SCHOOL. SHE SAYS THAT WHEN SHE IS IN 8 TH GRADE SHE CAN PUT MASCARA, POWDER AND LIPSTICK. I TOLD HER NO ONLY LIP-GLOSS OR A REALLY LIGHT LIPSTICK AND MAYBE A LITTLE BIT OF POWDER. SHE SAYS I'M WRONG AND THAT I'M WRONG. SHE SAYS THAT I'M BEING CHAUVINIST. I DON'T BELIEVE SO BUT I BELIEVE THERE IS A LINE BETWEEN HAVING CHILDREN THINK THEY ARE OLDER THAN THEY ARE ESPECIALLY GIRLS. AM I WRONG SAYING THAT I DON'T WANT MY DAUGHTER WEARING MAKE-UP OR EVEN LIGHT MAKE-UP AT UNTIL SHE GETS INTO AT LEAST HIGH SCHOOL.
so you're arguing about your future daughters makeup usage
you might have other things to worry about
The best thing to say to your wife to be is: "We'll cross that bridge when we get there."