valentinesday problem

I would just get him a card. Get him what you are comfortable with.

How about making dinner? Or get a card and make some cookies or brownies.

I agree with TTH.. something simple would be best, but this early on it needs to be something you are comfortable with..

if a card feels ok by you? do it..
Flowers?
Nothing?

what ever feels good to you then do it. Dont feel as though you HAVE to get something simply because its valentines day . It will not be the end of your relationship

I would give him one of those little boxes of candy hearts that have the little messages on them, like: crazy4u .
And then I'd buy something else, like a cd or something and first I'd give him the little candy hearts sort of like a fun little something you just picked up off hand and then if he didn't have anything for you - just leave it at that and keep the cd - but if he did have a present for you and you wanted to reciprocate with something bigger - you'd be prepared.

Or you could just say, 'I wanted to get this for you because I saw it and I thought you'd like it', and give him something whether he gives you anything or not.

But either way - I'd give him the candy hearts - those are always good for a laugh.

Get him A HUG!

Have a great day everyone!

a month isn't that long so you dont' want to get him anything too big because he probably wont' get you anything too big, so a card would probably do just fine or even a little box of chocolate, even a small dinner for you 2 only would be simple enough

and a basket of kittens.



or, if he doesn't have a smile, give him one of yours!

Or better yet a bonsai kitten!