my boyfriend loves getting head but i dont like to give it

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is there any other way of getting my boyfriend turned on without giving him head?

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[+4] - patiodog - 02/16/2009I'm waiting for the, "I hate getting head but my girlfriend loves giving it" thread, so's we can put people in touch with each other and really solve some problems.
[+2] - dadpad - 02/01/2009yes. Breathe in, Breathe out. If you dont wanna, you dont have to. If he makes it a requirment of your relationship, ditch him.
[+2] - Green Witch - 02/01/2009A few thoughts: 1 - you are probably young and still a little squeamish about body stuff. 2- the more you like a person the less it will bother you. There can come a point in a relationship that...
[+2] - patiodog - 02/01/2009Well, it's like anything else in the domestic sphere: if you've the disposable income, you can pay someone else to take care of it.
[+2] - The Pentacle Queen - 08/07/2009well it's all relative really isn't it? I wouldn't give head to hideous guy, but someone else might. Everyone likes to pretend they aren't shallow, but everyone is to some extent.
[+2] - Gargamel - 08/07/2009I only go down on women with long, silky pubic hair, perfectly aligned pelvic bones, and supple, glossy vagina lips. She's gotta have a pretty crotch, is what I'm saying. Call me superficial.
[+2] - Gargamel - 08/07/2009For heroin. Or even a partially eaten bag of Doritos. Cool ranch.
[+2] - chai2 - 08/07/2009Or to get the guy to go home already. "look, I gotta get up for work in the morning, and I can't seem to get you out of here. If I suck your dick, will you leave?" I've only had to...
[+2] - Green Witch - 08/07/2009Look out your window, Chai. I think I see a line forming.
[+2] - The Pentacle Queen - 08/07/2009[quote="Gargamel"] I only go down on women with long, silky pubic hair, perfectly aligned pelvic bones, and supple, glossy vagina lips. She's gotta have a pretty crotch, is what I'm...

yes.

Breathe in, Breathe out.

If you dont wanna, you dont have to. If he makes it a requirment of your relationship, ditch him.

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@o2babydolli3,

I don't get that.
Does he wash?
Maybe you just need to get more into it.

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@o2babydolli3,

A few thoughts:
1 - you are probably young and still a little squeamish about body stuff.
2- the more you like a person the less it will bother you. There can come a point in a relationship that you become as comfortable with your partner's body as you are with your own.

Can you tell me what you don't like? Is it just the idea of it or are you uncomfortable physically when you are doing it? Is he comfortable returning the favor?

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@o2babydolli3,

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is there any other way of getting my boyfriend turned on without giving him head?

he is your boy friend, how are we supposed to know?

Generally though, a lot of guys REALLY like a good BJ. It is a good idea to learn the art, use the talent to get something that you want. Relationships are built in large part on exchanges.

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@o2babydolli3,

Well, it's like anything else in the domestic sphere: if you've the disposable income, you can pay someone else to take care of it.

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@patiodog,

If you don't want to do it, don't do it. You should never have to do anything you don't want. Lots of women don't like it, so you're not alone. Give him a hand job if you're comfortable with that. But get used to the concept - as someone else said, guys like it.

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It really shouldn't be that hard to get your guy turned on.

If head is the only thing that will get him 'ready' for action, then he's got other problems and I'd probably ditch the guy. He sounds like he might be gay.

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A good hand job should suffice. If the guy ONLY responds to head...he does have troubles. (And guys who are ONLY into head, seldom are good return lovers!)

That said...every guy loves head...and most women who are really into sex...get lots of pleasure from giving it.

Are you into sex...or do you just consider it something you gotta do?

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@Frank Apisa,

head is the most awesomeest experience ever. sex doesnt even compare, handjobs dont even compare.

but if u dont like it OR dont get it. dont give it.

=D

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@OGIONIK,

iono how old u are but a major part of sexual "growth" is learning to do things solely to pleasure your partner.

i like the female respones btw haha.

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Does the Good Lord not say.....

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" I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive."
Acts 20:35

and who can deny the Word of God?

Go child, drop to your knees and do God's Will (and maybe His John, Mark, Mathew and Luke while you're at it.)

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