Bi-Polar Bear wrote:
I'm not trying to be uncharitable and she has sworn up and down to squinney this won't happen....but if by next week the wedding was back on it wouldn't surprise me. If she cries wolf enough...her family will not come to the wedding and this guy will have what he probably wanted all along...to marry her and isolate her at the same time. Both squinney and me hope that's not the case. As alway, she is more optimistic than I. I sincerely hope her optimism wins the day, if for no other reason than the fact squinney will never desert her sister even if everyone else does and then she's open to being taken advantage of in a thankless situation..... which will give me a near stroke. Squinney can handle all her own problems but I still get raving mad when I feel someone is trying to take advantage of or disrespect her.
We'll see...... as the Zen master said.
Your points r very well taken.
The history of this type of predatory mentality being what it is,
it may be
expected that control freak will return in a few days, tactically armed with profuse apologies,
admissions of guilt, much praise, declarations of love, assurances of good conduct and hope for the future.
Is it possible that sister can take a fairly
distant vacation for a while ?
at an undisclosed location ?
David
