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So turns out fucking hookers is emotionally unfulfilling.

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Reply Tue 4 Nov, 2008 05:08 am
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A man screws a hooker for physical release.


It would have been more accurate to say "most men" or starting with "In my experience" .
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Reply Wed 5 Nov, 2008 05:00 am
I just wish it would of either been like 10x more dirty like in the porno's Or she would of been more affectionate with touching and Talking sweet to me.

Sure she complimented me a bit but it was clearly false and whatnot but it was still hot.Just the sex was mostly too quiet....
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Reply Wed 5 Nov, 2008 05:38 am
Go to Thailand
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Reply Wed 5 Nov, 2008 07:05 am
What's in Thailand?
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Reply Wed 5 Nov, 2008 08:43 am
Buddhists and Jasmine Rice
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Reply Wed 5 Nov, 2008 01:58 pm
And the prettiest girls on earth.
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Reply Wed 5 Nov, 2008 06:41 pm
I prefer re-tread Duchesses myself. Fat ones for preference.
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Reply Wed 5 Nov, 2008 11:45 pm
spendius wrote:

I prefer re-tread Duchesses myself. Fat ones for preference.


Whatever tickles your fancy is good.
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Reply Fri 7 Nov, 2008 06:46 pm
Yeah I know. But the prettiest girls are not all that good at it in my experience.
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Reply Sat 8 Nov, 2008 11:52 am
'Prettiest' is a relative term. 'Prettier' or 'prettiest' in relation to what?

And 'good at it'? Good at what? Making YOU feel pretty or desireable or just getting you off -or what?

You know the funny thing is that I just realized that I've never had sex with anyone that anyone else would find typically handsome....isn't that weird? So I can't even speak to your assertion that attractiveness doesn't equal competence or aptitude.

And I've never paid anyone either, so I can't speak to the assertion or feeling that fucking hookers is emotionally unfulfilling.

All I know is that one time I happened to be the first person that someone who had never had sex with someone they loved had sex with and he said that he loved me and he said that it WAS different and more pleasureable than what he'd experienced ever before. I couldn't comment because I'd only ever had sex with people I'd felt at least some love for - except once - and that was a big mistake and I just cried through the whole thing.

Spendius - you are so funny.
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Reply Sat 8 Nov, 2008 12:08 pm
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Good at what?


Tickling my fancy. What else? I was responding to Wilso's comment.

I can't say I have ever been emotionally unfulfilled whatever the relative merits of the object.

You seem to have a fairly wide experience Becksie.
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Reply Sun 9 Nov, 2008 11:52 pm
You must realize that many in this position are down on their luck and trying to get by. They figure their best assets are their looks and bodies so they do it. Being in their shoes how would you like to show affection for an old biddie who pays you to pleasure her whom you are the least attracted to but has to pay lip service of showing gratitude of being paid for a service? Maybe if you regularly went to her and even given her a rose each time she might give you a kiss.
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Reply Mon 10 Nov, 2008 12:03 am
Maybe kissing is out of the question;
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In each case, then, "safe" takes on different meanings. Many readers of my fiction series have asked why fictional call girl Nancy Chan doesn't kiss. Is it, they ask, because kissing is too intimate? Not exactly. Refusing to kiss clients on the mouth is, for many professionals, a form of safe sex.

Many working girls say that kissing increases their chance of catching a cold, and most prostitutes I know worry more about catching a cold than they do about contracting an exotic and deadly virus. The STD problem they've got covered -- with condoms -- but other bugs are harder to dodge. Many prostitutes say that being exposed at close quarters to so many people is a challenge to the immune system. They fanatically dose themselves with vitamin C and coenzyme Q, keep boxes of homeopathic cold remedies on hand and sleep a lot.

Even though a cold won't kill you, it will put you out of work for a week. Prostitution is demanding: You are required to look and act alert, happy, healthy and pretty at all times. You cannot do this with a runny nose or a sore throat. In some jobs, you might be regarded as a hero for struggling into the office with the remains of a head cold. In this job, you just look desperate.

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Reply Mon 10 Nov, 2008 12:18 am
Okay, how about a kiss on the cheek?
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Reply Mon 10 Nov, 2008 12:29 am
the way I read MrHunt he was not needing kisses, he was needing slutty. The problem was not the concept of professional sex worker supplied sex, it was the quality of this particular sex worker.
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Reply Tue 11 Nov, 2008 10:36 am
Spendius wrote:
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Tickling my fancy. What else? I was responding to Wilso's comment.


Do you think they can't tickle correctly because they're pretty or do you think there might be some other variable that affects their ability to tickle (at least YOUR fancy) correctly?

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I can't say I have ever been emotionally unfulfilled whatever the relative merits of the object.


Well I guess the only way that can happen is if you're expecting emotional fulfillment from something or someone else.. I guess I would look at it (achieving emotional fulfillment) more as a responsibility of my own rather than expecting emotional fulfillment from someone or something else.

Like who would ever think a hooker could or would be responsible for their emotional fulfillment? Not me - and apparently not you either.

I've always thought we must have a lot in common Spendius.


Spendius wrote
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You seem to have a fairly wide experience Becksie.


No, not really - I've told you more about what I haven't done than what I have done. I've only relayed two scenarios (with love vs. without love) and the fact that there was never any money changing hands.

I'd characterize myself as being fairly careful and honest about expressing myself. I've never expressed anything that I didn't want to express to anyone I didn't want to express it to.

I learned early - the one time I didn't have anything to express - it didn't work for me. I didn't like the way it made me feel about myself - so I never myself get in that situation again.



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Reply Tue 11 Nov, 2008 12:15 pm
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Do you think they can't tickle correctly because they're pretty or do you think there might be some other variable that affects their ability to tickle (at least YOUR fancy) correctly?


I think that they think being pretty and in demand absolves them from further effort. They change their tune as they get less pretty with age. The sensible ones I mean.

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Well I guess the only way that can happen is if you're expecting emotional fulfillment from something or someone else.. I guess I would look at it (achieving emotional fulfillment) more as a responsibility of my own rather than expecting emotional fulfillment from someone or something else.


I don't understand that. Emotional fulfillment is the same as physical fulfillment to me. Emotion means movement outwards. Anything else might well be an assertion.

I once was ashamed after the event. I broke union rules with a married woman. Just the once.
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Reply Wed 12 Nov, 2008 10:24 am
I'd be ashamed if I slept with a married person too.
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Reply Wed 12 Nov, 2008 12:22 pm
It's our Christianity showing Becks. When the atheists come to power such things will be laughed at.
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Reply Thu 13 Nov, 2008 10:24 am
Do you really think so? I mean that Christianity (or adherence to any other religious creed) makes people more faithful and respectful of the marriage vows of others?

I'd think it'd have more to do with personality traits myself - such as the ability to empathize and sympathize- the desire to engage in fair play- being unwilling to hurt people you don't even know...that kind of thing.

Last year I was talking to one of my students who was this nineteen year old guy and he was telling me about this girl he liked and said he had or was going to have sex with her. I knew him really well and I knew he attended not one, but two very fundamentalist churches every week - so I asked him - 'So, not that I'm judging you on this issue at all - but I'm just interested to know how you square this premarital sex thing with your church and its teachings...I didn't expect him not to have sex before he got married - god no - but I was sincerely interested in hearing some kid today line up his reasoning and logic on the requirements of his church and actually living that life today.

He said - 'Oh, that's easy...I just do what I want to do and then ask for forgiveness...' I laughed and laughed because he was just so honest about it, but the point is - sometimes I think it might be easier for so-called Christians to allow themselves these 'sins' because some of them honestly believe that they're sinning more against their god and their beliefs and the regards for that flesh and blood person they're trespassing against is secondary.

I just guess I mean I can see it going either way.
 

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