Love, such as it ever was, on the wedding day, does not always last. Sometimes it evaporates in a flume quickly, and sometimes, at whatever spark level, it grows, in the way of real love, not infatuation.
I'm not so sure you should be all so hurt, Jodie, from what I read. Of course, I don't know you two or your marriage.
Many of us have loved people over twenty years and had the mate say, "I don't love you anymore", and leave.
Some of us have found out we don't love someone anymore, if indeed we ever did.
You have a guy saying how much he loves you now.
Geez, quit beefing and love him back.