Spendius is a lonely idiot who needs all the attention and spotlight on him. Thats why he jumps in on topics , as if to shout, "hey look at me" Im really not an idiot" However, evidence does not support his claims.
Don't mind the bickering, they just broke up after a positively torrid, though clearly doomed, affair in the Bahamas and are understandably overwrought by emotions.