The confusion arises from the title of the thread.
I think you're right, Edgar. This should have been in the "Relationships & Marriage" section.
Jodie, a piece of unsolicited advice. Don't wait 'til you're good and angry about things your husband does or doesn't do. Tell him right away, in a kind, loving, trying to set things right manner.
The two of you, working together, with a little advice from a DIY store, could have replaced that breaker by yourselves and I think that you both would have been warmed, no pun intended, by the event.