Most of the comments on this were from women who had been cheated on by narcissistic men, but what about a narcissistic woman who compulsively cheats on her ever adoring boyfriend? I couldn't figure it out before reading this, but I am afraid that that's what I am. I love my boyfriend, and we have a wonderful relationship. Even so I can't help flirting with other men, and a couple times it has led farther. I wish I knew how to stop, but even when I try to I literally can't. There is no "just walking away". It feels like there is nothing I can do. I've hurt my boyfriend, and there is no way I would ever intentionally do that. I honestly feel that I am just scum, but what is there I can do about it? Ugh, sorry for my internet venting, but I really needed to get that off my chest.